Contents
Cover
Title Page
Dedication
Preface
How This Book Was Written—and Why
Nine Suggestions on How to Get the Most Out of This Book
Part One: Fundamental Techniques in Handling People
Chapter 1: “If You Want to Gather Honey, Don’t Kick Over the Beehive”
Chapter 2: The Big Secret of Dealing with People
Chapter 3: “He Who Can Do This Has the Whole World with Him. He Who Cannot Walks a Lonely Way”
Part Two: Six Ways to Make People Like You
Chapter 1: Do This and You’ll Be Welcome Anywhere
Chapter 2: A Simple Way to Make a Good First Impression
Chapter 3: If You Don’t Do This, You Are Headed for Trouble
Chapter 4: An Easy Way to Become a Good Conversationalist
Chapter 5: How to Interest People
Chapter 6: How to Make People Like You Instantly
Part Three: How to Win People to Your Way of Thinking
Chapter 1: You Can’t Win an Argument
Chapter 2: A Sure Way of Making Enemies—and How to Avoid It
Chapter 3: If You’re Wrong, Admit It
Chapter 4: A Drop of Honey
Chapter 5: Get the Other Person Saying “Yes, Yes” Immediately
Chapter 6: The Safety Valve in Handling Complaints
Chapter 7: How to Get Cooperation
Chapter 8: A Formula That Will Work Wonders for You
Chapter 9: What Everybody Wants
Chapter 10: An Appeal That Everybody Likes
Chapter 11: The Movies Do It. Advertisers Do It. Why Don’t You Do It?
Chapter 12: When Nothing Else Works, Try This
Part Four: Be a Leader: How to Change People Without Giving Offense or Arousing Resentment
Chapter 1: If You Must Find Fault, This Is the Way to Begin
Chapter 2: How to Criticize—and Not Be Hated for It
Chapter 3: Talk About Your Own Mistakes First
Chapter 4: No One Likes to Take Orders
Chapter 5: Let the Other Person Save Face
Chapter 6: How to Spur People On to Success
Chapter 7: Give a Dog a Good Name
Chapter 8: Make the Fault Seem Easy to Correct
Chapter 9: Make People Glad to Do What You Want
Appendix: A Shortcut to Distinction
About the Author
Index
Copyright
Guide
Cover
Start of Content
Title Page
Dedication
Preface
Introduction
Appendix
About the Author
Index
Copyright
III
V
VI
VII
VIII
IX
X
XI
XII
XIII
XIV
XV
XVI
XVII
XVIII
XIX
XX
XXI
XXII
XXIII
XXIV
XXV
XXVI
XXVII
XXVIII
XXIX
XXX
XXXI
XXXII
1
2
3
4
5
6
7
8
9
10
11
12
13
14
15
16
17
18
19
20
21
22
23
24
25
26
27
28
29
30
31
32
33
34
35
36
37
38
39
40
41
42
43
44
45
46
47
48
49
50
51
52
53
54
55
56
57
58
59
60
61
62
63
64
65
66
67
68
69
70
71
72
73
74
75
76
77
78
79
80
81
82
83
84
85
86
87
88
89
90
91
92
93
94
95
96
97
98
99
100
101
102
103
104
105
106
107
108
109
110
111
112
113
114
115
116
117
118
119
120
121
122
123
124
125
126
127
128
129
130
131
132
133
134
135
136
137
138
139
140
141
142
143
144
145
146
147
148
149
150
151
152
153
154
155
156
157
158
159
160
161
162
163
164
165
166
167
168
169
170
171
172
173
174
175
176
177
178
179
180
181
182
183
184
185
186
187
188
189
190
191
192
193
194
195
196
197
198
199
200
201
202
203
204
205
206
207
208
209
210
211
212
213
214
215
216
217
218
219
220
221
222
223
224
225
226
227
228
229
230
231
232
233
234
235
236
237
238
239
240
241
242
243
244
245
246
247
248
249
250
251
252
253
254
255
256
257
258
259
260
261
262
263
264
265
266
267
268
269
270
271
272
273
274
275
276
277
278
279
280
281
282
283
284
285
286
287
288