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From here on out, the schedule is up to you! You know by now that you’ll need to practice for a minimum of twelve minutes, aiming for five times per week, in order to see benefits in your attention system. But the combination of practices is completely customizable. Most people report that they have a practice they particularly like. Remember: They are all mutually reinforcing, and they each incorporate components of the others. They are all part of the core workout. So choose what works for you.
You can select a different practice each day. You can combine the practices to equal twelve minutes. I like to do Find Your Flashlight or River of Thought for the first twelve minutes, then finish with a shorter Connection Practice.
As you practice these skills for twelve minutes, in a chair in your living room (or wherever you do this attentional workout), they’re going to start showing up for you: in your work, in your relationships, in the arc of your life as you meet challenges and try to hold to your goals and dreams. If those twelve minutes feel too hard, remind yourself: You’re not doing this to be an Olympic-level breath follower! You’re doing it to strengthen your mental core, to power up your attentional stability and agility.
With mindfulness training, you can use your attention to disrupt old, ineffective ways of navigating the world. When you have a peak mind, you have the power to flip the script.
There’s the standard way of thinking, and then there’s the Peak Mind Pivot. It’s not that the standard way of thinking isn’t valuable—it’s that the Peak Mind Pivot greatly expands your options.
Peak Mind Pivot: Practice being aware that you are thinking.
Peak Mind Pivot: Practice noticing and monitoring when you are not focused.
Peak Mind Pivot: Get better at listening.
Peak Mind Pivot: Disidentify and unyoke your perspective from me/I so you can see yourself and the situation more clearly.
Peak Mind Pivot: Practice focusing on it non-elaboratively. Don’t make up a story about it—simply observe it, and notice how it changes over time.
Peak Mind Pivot: Focus on the body when you are experiencing strong emotion to gain more data and greater insight into what is arising.
Peak Mind Pivot: Accept and allow it.
Peak Mind Pivot: Extend kindness and show compassion.
Peak Mind Pivot: Regulate yourself (first). Be calm to get calm.
Peak Mind Pivot: Accept that distractions will arise. Notice them, and practice coming back.